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Today Umbert advises his friend, Alexis, visiting Paris from Montecito in California, about dating.
Alexis thinks that French girls are tough regarding the dates; that’s why he looks for any original ideas.
The two friends think that the more original the place will be, the better the chances Alexis will have.
They don’t want to look like random guys going in a casual restaurant.
They want something new, unexpected, creating a surprise them so the girl will have a crush on Alexis.
That’s why Umbert advised Alexis to not go to the restaurant on a 1st date!
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« Paris is very small for those who love each other with such great love. », Jacques Prévert, French writer.
1) Basic rules for a date
The first appointment should be in a neutral place, not late at night. Never at ones home.
Choose a beautiful place, quiet to talk.
The choice of the place is difficult because it is also very related to the habits of the protagonists and their intellectual level.
Try to find something close to where both of you live. You don’t want to have time for many hesitations on your way home.
Avoid places where your friends are, or where you know everybody. Your princess wants all your attention. You want to be as natural as possible, and you won’t be if your friends or acquaintances are around.
If you haven’t met already, remember to mention a distinctive sign so you will recognize each other (color of your clothes for example)
2) The restaurant
This is one of the most common ideas.
If you choose this one, try to find something original and chic.
You can choose a place with an all-new experience — for example, an Indian restaurant with a Bollywood decoration, and an amiable staff.
Another idea would be an ice restaurant, build with ice.
The goal is to surprise her, and this place will be the topic to start the discussion.
Always stay with chic places, even if they are specials.
Fine dining is very old school unless they organize a unique and fun event, for example, an oysters and champagne evening or a thematic party.
A woman will always be flattered to be invited to fine dining, but Umbert would keep this option for the second time. It will improve the surprise effect again, and also reassure her.
3) The cocktail or wine bar
Having a drink in a wine or cocktail bar, then dine elsewhere is an excellent option.
At least, if something goes wrong, you’ll be on time to cancel the restaurant.
Choose an intimate place, with beautiful lights, perfect for the conversation. The candles highlight women and make them feel comfortable.
Avoid loud music and too much noise in general; it will stress you.
4) Everything else is the best!
Umbert likes to go for a picnic, in a calm and beautiful place. Women never expect you to organize such a thing. It is also a chic idea, that shows that you don’t want to show off, but are real, sincere and straightforward.
The other option that always works is to travel somewhere for the night. This means that you will have booked the tickets or the place before, but this is very, and you will have plenty of things to talk about regarding this short trip. If you are in Paris, try some chic destinations like Deauville, Dinan or Biarritz on the coast. If you are in New York, the Bahamas for the night always works!
If she loves sport or culture, or both which is better, try to find a fantastic event that you can do together. For example the escape game Inside Opera where you have to find the Phantom of the Opera, in the real Opera garner. This is fun, chic and amazing!
Umbert is sure that Alexis, who works in the movie industry in Los Angeles, will find great ideas. The French girls will have a crush on him for sure!
Now, dear Alexis, you have to pay the bill!
Love and romance are at every corner in Paris.
Moreover, Paris is a city where you can plan and imagine whatever original idea you want, so be creative, and she will kiss you!
What must be remembered: never show off on a first date, be sincere, simple, chic and original. Spend time to find a perfect spot to be a winner.
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Enjoy the journey!
Umbert De Paris